How to be More Attractive

Looks are not everything.

Sure I know you have probably heard this before but, do you really believe it?

To understand more of what I am saying think about the various couples you either know personally or see around your city, or on t.v.  Some couples have partners that are both beautiful and handsome by society's standards.  But some couples have one person who may be beautiful or handsome and the other, well not so much.  But these couples are equally in love.

Most of us have caught ourselves saying, "Wow, how did she get him?"  Or, "Oh my, what is he doing with her?"  The movie Shallow Hal comes to mind for some reason, but oh I digress.

My point is that attractiveness goes deeper than the outward appearance.  Outwardly beautiful people can be very unattractive if they don't radiate a good vibe that draws people in.  And on the other hand, someone who may not be outwardly cute can be very attractive because they exude a vibe that makes people want to be around them.  They may not be a "hottie"  but they are very attractive.

So, how can you be more attractive?  Read further to find out:

• Don't be too needy.  Neediness, or being too clingy is a sure way to send a person running in the opposite direction.  Be comfortable in your own skin.  Value yourself and be happy with who you are.  Be happy when people are in your life but be just as happy when they are not.  
• Don't be too critical.  The most attractive people accept others as they are and for who they are.  Attractive people let others be themselves and they don't try to change them.  They also do not expect people to be perfect or to meet all their needs.Let people feel comfortable around you and free to be themselves.
• Be confident.  Attractive people are confident and assertive.  They don't hide and cower in the corner.  They move confidently toward their goals and are not afraid to make the first move.  Don't wait for things to happen, make them happen.
• Have a clear agenda.  People are drawn to someone they feel they can trust.  If you come off as sneaky and as if you are hiding something then you will not attract many people to you.
• Know what you want.  What type of people do you want to be in your life.  Exude those same qualities and you will draw more people in your life with the qualities you desire.  If you keep attracting jerks and people who only want to use you, then you need to step back and reassess.  Clear yourself of junk inside your mind and spirit and start attracting good people to you.